Another nonsensical blog about things....

I will admit that I LOVE LOVE LOVE the blog world.

Reading people's thoughts, feelings, emotions, dreams, goals, ideas and all that stuff in their words from their point of view - really regenerates me.

Everyone I know - and the blogs of people I don't' know - is going through a different phase and place in life and I love reading about it.

It makes me feel fresh, new, and all sorts of perspectivilized (it's a good real word - hush).

Since I'm going through a different place in my life than I ever thought I would be going through...and am navigating as best as possible and finding the joy and love in the world around me - and working to achieve pure real genuine happiness....it's so great to read about other people who have gone through, and are going through the things I'm going through (you know, life...) and they've come out on top and as a better person.

I've made it a personal goal to not identify myself as 'divorced' - I've known many women who carry this torch as if it's who they are - not something they've been through. I've watched bitterness grow and harvest into a really big tree - and it's sad.

I don't want to be a victim of my circumstances - I want to OWN my circumstances. I want to stare at my circumstances in the face and say, "Hello Friend. Let's do this together." and eventually leave those circumstances in the dust.

Is this some new-age fangled scary way of thinking? I think not.

The world is a better place when we are all working to achieve something greater than ourselves and learn from each other - with open minds and open hearts.

~Stephanie